Author: Madeleine Mason
We all have our own unique coping mechanisms to deal with the various pressures, but sometimes they can actually weaken over time. Our resilience reduces and we find ourselves struggling to cope. This can also extend to our dating lives. But how can you tell if you could do with some date coaching?
He tried to be a little too funny, a little too outrageous, and accidentally went over the line. But can’t it happen to the best of us? You tell yourself 'No, I would never make that mistake"
Micro-cheating relates to behaviours which are considered inappropriate to the fidelity of your romantic partnership. They are those small actions that by themselves aren’t quite enough to make you end the relationship, but big enough to make you feel hurt or angry and unloved. They ultimately contribute to the erosion of your relationship and that loving feeling.
When we are on that first date, the anxiety can fly high, a mix of trepidation and excitement. "Will they find me attractive?" "Will there be a spark?" "Is this the one?"
Mainly people just want to know whether their date is into them. It's to reduce the anxiety. I often get asked “How can I tell on a first date that my date fancies me?” It’s a tricky question.
There’s nothing worse than feeling out of touch when you just don’t understand the lingo. If you’ve been off the dating scene, or concentrating on career success, you may not be au fait with expressions that have been cultivated and adopted to describe dating behaviour. It’s a dating safari out there, so here, in this article, I lift the mystery on all this terminology and enlighten us all.